HOW EFFECTIVE R U?

We had a talk about how do we affect our reality and day to day events. She was under the impression that just as soon as you thought it, it was going to be. That the distance between when I think something or say something and its actual manifestation is really as short as a blink of an eye. What does your own life experiences tell you my children? This friend I was speaking with is very read and intellectually keen, but perhaps that is not enough. We need to realize my love that there are very few things that we can speak of with such certainty. It takes a thought staying and fermenting for a while, I said, and then it must turn into words, then actions before the full effect of it is realized in the Quantum field. So, remember this my love, you cannot blame yourself for having an unpleasant or uncomfortable thought creep into your head, that is only a mechanical reaction to whatever triggering events preceded it(well blaming anyone never helps now does it?). How conscious you are, how long you hold on to that thought, how many people you talk to about it, how your conscious self allows it to manifest into action is sometimes days away from its beginning. To manifest most of desires for example we need to show up daily and verify and affirm our intentions for a good length of time. It is possible and does happen(specially with negatively charged emotions) when our hurried/jerky unconscious self is so in control that we think, say and act within a very short periods of time lapses. But then if that is the case my child, we need to be learning the old lesson again, GO SIT AND MEDITATE MORE OFTEN, QUIET THE MIND MORE OFTEN, FEED THE SPIRIT AND BE THE MASTER OF YOUR DESTINY.